CORE Mindset
- CONFIDENCE: Project it (Posture, Voice, Eyes). Set the tone.
- EFFICIENCY: Value time. Filter fast. Cut losses.
- CALIBRATE!: Read signals (G/Y/R). Body language! (See Calibration Masterclass)
- VOLUME: More quality approaches = More results. Rejection = Data.
- GOAL FOCUS: Steer towards logistics & escalation.
- RESPECT: Enthusiastic Consent MANDATORY. Zero exceptions.
Get Ready
- Look Sharp: Clean, fit, groomed. Match venue.
- Mind Right: Positive ritual (music, focus). Confident & open vibe. Volume goal?
- Smart Spots: High-traffic, good for chat/escalation. Near your place = Bonus.
- Opener Ready: 1-2 simple, warm openers (Direct, Contextual).
Interaction Flow
(See Full Playbook for details on each step)
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Approach (Act FAST!)
- 3-Sec Rule: See -> GO.
- Body Lang: Confident, warm, angle (45°).
- Warm Opener: Clear delivery.
- Optional: Early Touch Test -> **CALIBRATE INSTANTLY!**
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Connect & Escalate (Filter FAST!)
- Vibe Check: Build comfort quickly.
- Spark: Playful Push-Pull. Test.
- Escalate Kino (On GREEN): Hand, waist. Be confident, *observe*.
- Filter/Exit Fast (On Y/R): Polite exit ("Gotta run..."). Move on.
- Confident Close (If GREEN): Number (FTC: "Gotta run, but...") or Logistics Test ("Join me at my place?").
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Follow Up (Text -> Meet FAST)
- Timing: Soon (within 12-24h).
- Text: `Callback + Direct Invite (Tonight/Tomorrow?)`. SHORT.
- Goal: Set meet ≤ 4 texts.
- Ghosted? 1 follow-up max, then DELETE. Abundance.
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The Date (Escalate & Logistics)
- Venue: Choose wisely (Close seating, dim, near you).
- Kino: Escalate *faster* on sustained GREEN.
- Kiss Test: Sooner if signals clearly GREEN.
- Home Pitch: Confident & Direct ("Let's head to my place"). Handle hesitation respectfully but firmly. Plan B?
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The Close (Your Place)
- Set Mood: Dim, music, comfort, privacy, protection ready.
- Lead Smoothly: Re-establish kino, guide.
- CONSENT CHECKS: *Crucial.* Verbal ("Okay?") & Non-Verbal (*Enthusiastic* participation).
- (Optional) Anchors: Note positive touches she loves.
CRITICAL Reminders
- CONSENT IS KING: Enthusiastic "YES" ONLY. STOP IMMEDIATELY on "No," "Stop," hesitation, freeze, pull away. Acknowledge ("Okay, absolutely"). Be safe.
- CALIBRATE ALWAYS: G (Go!), Y (Pause!), R (STOP!). Trust signals. (See Calibration Masterclass).
- BOUNCE BACK FAST: Rejection? -> Graceful Exit -> Reset -> **Next approach ASAP!** Learn & move on.
FWB Maintenance
- Texts: Direct, logistics focus ("Repeat soon? My place [Day]?").
- Meets: Low-key (your place default), fast escalation.
- Boundaries: Keep casual unless mutually agreed otherwise.